Why Graham.Law For Your Family Law Case?


Colorado Family Law. Period. Rather than dabbling in other areas of the law, Graham.Law is 100% focused on what matters to your case – Colorado divorce & family law. As a result, we know the system, the attorneys, the judges, and the law.

Sure, we lose a little business by turning away clients with criminal, personal injury or other legal needs. But there are plenty of good firms in El Paso County who can help clients in those areas – we’ll focus on what we do best.

Similarly, we practice almost exclusively* in Colorado Springs & the 4th judicial district (El Paso County & Teller County). If we try to travel to courts around the state, we’d feel like fish out of water. Knowing the system, the unique local procedures, and the other professionals involved in your case gives us an edge.

* If someone really, really asks, one of us may travel to a nearby district, but most of the time we suggest hiring counsel who know those courts best as they practice there daily.


You deserve the unvarnished truth, not puffery or misplaced optimism. The Graham.Law attorneys will never shade the truth, but instead give you a realistic assessment of your situation, so you can make informed decisions.

Promising you the moon, then failing to deliver, is basically a “bait & switch.” We would rather you not hire us than spend the rest of our professional relationship trying to explain to you why we could not deliver on promises we had no business making in the first case. We are not going to blame others, such as a “lousy judge” to cover up for bad advice.

Award-Winning Team

We’re good, and Graham.Law is very likely on most local family law attorneys’ lists of top law firms in town. But after reaching a certain level, no one can really claim to be the very best. Colorado Springs has several great family law attorneys who know what they are doing, and the best attorney for your case may not be a perfect fit for someone else. But we are proud of the awards our firm has won, including:

The totals reflect the number of Colorado Springs family law firms or lawyers who made the list.

You are hiring a professional to manage your Colorado divorce or family law case. This means you need to know you can trust the lawyer to look out for your best interests. We intend to earn that trust. Referrals and reviews from satisfied clients are an important part of our business, and unhappy clients do not remember their lawyers fondly!

Cheap Divorce Lawyers

Sorry, this attention-getting header is a bit misleading. A “cheap divorce lawyer” is probably the stereotypical guy in a plaid suit on a highway billboard. That’s not us.

We commit to providing you with the best possible bang for the buck. But good, experienced lawyers are not cheap, and Graham.Law is no exception. We have plenty of legitimate work, and won’t run up your legal fees to line our pockets. A family law case is already an expensive proposition, so we do what we can to avoid making it worse by doing unnecessary work or urging you fight on issues you cannot win.

We fight for you when it makes sense, and counsel compromise when fighting makes no sense. You don’t spend a grand in legal fees fighting over a $200 sofa. But if you are fighting to protect your children or $50,000 of property or maintenance is at stake, attorney’s fees become a much more worthwhile investment.


Aggressive representation does not mean shouting, being rude, or snarling at the other side. If that’s what you are looking for, there are lawyers out there who will have temper tantrums and fight for the sake of appearance, pound the table, fire off nasty emails, etc. Not us.

The Graham.Law attorneys are legal professionals. not street punks. We don’t engage in abusive discovery, name calling, nor storm out of meetings. Lawyers are not easy to intimidate – such theatrics may appeal to a certain type of client, but they do not help your case.

We are tenacious, and our track record of success demonstrates a commitment of fighting for our clients. Graham.Law follows the Teddy Roosevelt philosophy – “Speak softly, and carry a big stick.” We research the law, learn the facts of your case, prepare for trial, and go in ready litigate successfully. We do not shy away from a fight when necessary, nor do we go out of our way to fight for the “fun” of it when negotiations will give you a better outcome.

Cutting-Edge Technology

At Graham.Law, the only thing old-fashioned is the way we take care of clients. We mix people with technology to bring you the very best representation possible. Without proper tools, even the most skilled attorney would struggle. Our team has the resources we need to excel. We don’t just use technology, we embrace it to stay ahead of the other side, and use it to your advantage.

You may notice we’re different when you complete our online intake form with questions customized for your specific case rather than a 3rd generation photocopy of a the same, tired fill-in-the-blank forms used since President Bush was in office. The first one!

It may sound dangerous to say we keep our most important data in the cloud, but the cloud offers the perfect combination of convenience and security. We proudly use G Suite, Google’s industrial-strength business apps, not to be confused with the free Gmail or Google Drive client you use at home. Not only does G Suite give us secure access to our data from home or work, but, more important, they use state-of-the-art encryption to both store and transmit our files. No wonder governments and Fortune 500 companies alike trust G Suite with their data more than their own networks.

Internally, using Google Docs means we can collaborate on documents. Externally, we can convert our docs to MS Word or Excel format so those at less tech-savvy firms can open them. And G Suite enforces mobile phone security, so if an attorney loses a mobile device, your personal information is safe, and can be remotely wiped.

We spend thousands of dollars each year on CLEs to keep up with the latest Colorado family law developments. But sometimes we have to roll up our sleeves and research case law and statutes. If you visit some law firms, you’ll see bookshelves filled with dusty books. They either have those books purely for show, or they are way, way behind the power curve.

We used to have bookshelves full of books. But about 30 years ago, computerized legal research entered the modern era, and it’s been getting better every year. With Casemaker, we have at our fingertips statutes, case law, court rules, etc, from Colorado, the federal government, as well as every state. Now, we have hard copies of the 2-3 books we use most, and everything else is online.

At the heart of a family law case are exhibits prepared using Family Law Software (the link goes to their free child support version for the public). Our dedicated family law software suite can not only create the mandatory sworn financial statement, but integrates with asset/debt spreadsheets, child support worksheets, and more.

Our VOIP (Voice-Over-IP) telephone system means we can securely access messages even if not at our desks. We can set up conference calls, our voicemail boxes never get full, etc. Fax machine? Who needs it?  Okay, we do sometimes. But for the very few faxes we send or receive, we dumped that obsolete fax machine and replaced it with a secure online service that converts faxes to PDFs and emails them to us.

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